What destroys relationships?

Now from TV screens, in any advertisement you can hear about how to build a happy relationship. In fact, the main task of such videos is to sell more of their own products. Therefore, the model of the family that is shown on television does not always correspond to ideals. Most often, such models are simply imposed on family people.

What destroys relationships:

General family budget. As the experience of many families shows, a family may not have a common budget at all. The fact is that each of the family members should have their own finances in order to purchase gifts, afford to purchase some new clothes, even if not very expensive ones. It is best to build a family budget with shares and contributions. Each family member invests their money to cover certain types of necessary services and purchases. These include paying utility bills, a grocery basket in order to cook food. There are several other categories that family members should invest in that can be discussed. Part of the money remains with each participant and partner.

From TV screens, we can see that a strong, good family is one that spends all the time together. Actually it doesn't work. You can fill your time with each other only at the initial stages. Usually, when people meet, they are interesting because they are independent, very peculiar. This is what allows people to get to know each other, and every day is full of surprises. When people live together for a long period of time, novelty goes away, everyday life appears. So that it does not become monotonous, boring, it is necessary to dilute it. To do this, it is necessary that everyone has their own personal space, and time that they can spend as they wish.

Lack of self-development. People cease to be interesting to each other if they are not interesting to themselves. A person can be interested in the opposite sex only if he constantly develops.